I play in a small community called Laerad (laerad.net). My best friend has just started a new server called Overload, which runs 187 mods, including all the usual suspects that you'd find in Feed The Beast for instance. Off the top of my head
IC2 with GregTech
If you want the full list, let me know.
If you want to play on it, join us on IRC at irc.esper.net on #LaeradChat
I trust it isn't against the rules to link to other gaming communities here on THG, I'd be disappointed if that was so!
I've started recording videos of me playing on Overload whilst rambling on about mostly Minecraft and all the mods, so if you fancy watching, check my channel out:
Two videos uploaded so far, three more to come. Getting VDSL soon, I'll be able to upload videos so much faster!
Hope you enjoy
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